Your two cents

Today’s reflection is taken from the thirty-third Sunday in ordinary time.

Not so long ago there was a very popular country song by Billy Rae Cyrus called Some Gave All. The song was written in honor of a veteran he had met in 1989, and all of the men and women who put their life on the line for the love of their country. As the lyrics go, All gave some, some gave all. Ultimately, the song seeks to honor and recognize that in this life there are those who are willing to give their life for something or someone greater than themselves.

On this Veteran’s Day weekend, I want to give a shout out to all who “gave some” and offer a prayer for “some who gave all.” I want to also recognize that, tragically, approximately 20 veterans commit suicide every day in the U.S.

I joined the Marines right out of high school (pictured here on the left), as did my dad (pictured here on the right) and uncle before me. I joined right after the first invasion of Iraq, in 1992 and was blessed with a 4-year tour free of conflict. Our soldiers today enjoy no such peace in their time of service. Many who join today give their whole life in the service of our country, and all who join take that same risk. Today we stop to reflect on the life they selflessly offer for our good and the good of others, and to give thanks for it.

Many Marines with whom I served are surprised to discover I am a man of God and a candidate for ordination to the permanent diaconate, and many in the Church are surprised that I am a former Force Recon Marine, but the truth is that the requirements for both are shockingly similar.

Both require a willingness to serve and maybe even to lose one’s life for claiming the title. Both require discipline and courage. Both require selfless sacrifice and long suffering. Both require a love of fellow man and a sure binding to one’s brothers and sisters in service. Both require knowledge and study, time alone to reflect and time together to train. And both demand that a man or woman be “all in.” There’s no half-way with either.

The Gospel today invites us to consider what it really means to go all in for Jesus. Many wealthy people offered large sums of money–but according to Jesus, there were yet far from total commitment. It was only the poor widow today that made the leap from mere “involvement” to total “commitment.” I’ve heard that the difference between a chicken and a pig in the making of eggs and bacon for breakfast, is the difference between involvement and commitment. The chicken is certainly involved in the endeavor, but there is no bacon without the pig’s life–total commitment is required.

Sadly, in our Church we have a lot of chickens and very few pigs. As Americans, myself included, we have a difficult time giving up all for him, and many are simply unwilling to give him their last two cents. Jesus demands time and time again that those who would follow him be of a total commitment sort. Like the widow of Zarephath in the first reading, we need to hear the call to faith and put ALL out confidence in God’s providential care for us–not an easy thing to do for sure–which might help to explain why Western nations are experiencing such a shortage of vocations to the priesthood and to religious life. For too many who have wealth, it’s asking too much. We don’t mind being involved–but committed we are not.

On this Veterans Day weekend, take the time to pause and reflect on the commitment given by so many veterans, stop, thank, and shake a veteran’s hand–especially if he or she is homeless and hungry, and pray for the souls of those who have died both in the service of, and because of the service to our nation. Be inspired by their commitment to others and a greater cause, and be willing to commit yourself to others and the greatest cause, Jesus Christ and His kingdom.

Take it or leave it, after all, it’s just my two cents.

May God bless and care for you, Stephen

For reflection:

Have I freely committed my time, talent, and treasure to the Lord and His Church?

How is God calling me to love and serve him and my neighbor?

How can I help support and encourage vocations to the priesthood and religious life?

Do I appreciate the freedoms and blessings that have been won for me by Jesus Christ and by brave men and women in uniform? How can I show it?

By Deacon Stephen Valgos

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